It seems that the two concepts are easy to get into, but in reality they are completely different. You know “listen” to feel the sound of life but have you ever really “listened”?
“Listening” is simply an act of the mind, when we are suddenly “disturbed” by some noise in space. Sometimes we nod, smiling and hearing who is talking. But is that really listening?
“Listening” has a very important meaning – making sense of all relationships in life.
To be able to listen to someone, you have to really understand their problem, like an investigation.
“Listening” to feel not only the sound but also the emotions, thoughts, opinions, expectations, beliefs and feelings that come from the other person.
When you talk to someone, what do you want most from them? That is exactly what they want from you. We all have the desire to share and want to be respected.
Listening is not unconscious but requires harmony and sharing. The most important thing is that you step by step into the enemy’s story (but that doesn’t mean you lose your own opinion).
When listening to someone, be honest. The opposite person will feel respect from your side. A conspicuous rule is, the more people respect you, the more respected you are and the better the relationship.
Open your heart, you will understand what the other person expects. Listening is communication and communication, or a dialogue and connection.
It is the connection that makes the bond between the two. Listening is an art in love, the most romantic element that crystallizes from the desire to share, care and sympathize.